Sunday, September 11, 2011

REMEMBER: EVERY PART OF THE RELATIONSHIP HAS TO PLAY ITS ROLE!


It's true, the society imposed a wrong thought in people's mind, that men have to work to win the girl and because girls are approached a lot, they got to have a filter mechanism, in order to select the right guy for her, because she can't have relationships with all of the men, who are trying to attract her.
She has many choices and that's why she is showing indifference often and she expects to be hit on, but you can make her drop her shield, by making fun of her for example.
You just have to make the first step and if you know how to flirt and what attitude to adopt, to attract her, she will work for your attention.





I like what one of my readers said "Maybe men are to blame too for having such ridiculously low standards".
By having low standards, the girls are being in control, because they feel, that they have higher value.
You got to show the girl that you're the high-value person and that she has to work to win your attention and this can be done by conveying also negative body-language once in a while.
Raise your standards and tease her a lot, so that she will feel lower-value than you.

It's obvious, that boys complain, that they can't get a partner, but because of the lack of experience, they expect the girls to come to them. They don't know how to act in the presence of girls, they are shy and that way they can never have a girlfriend.
I've been in the same situation and I know how it feels.

YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GENDER ROLES!

For most of history, men and women were only allowed to play their gender role and by not acting like this, they would have not survive.
In this modern society, everyone can survive and procreate, without necessary fulfilling their role. At this time, the physical strength doesn't have a value anymore, what is vital to attract women are qualities, that can be learned by any man.
It's essential to know, that in order to have a healthy relationship, both sides have to play their role, that got to be opposite. That means, that if the man is playing the male gender role, he can only attract female gender role or contrary. And believe me, there are also men, who play the female gender role and this kind of men can have a good relationship with women, who play the male gender role.

What do you think, that "male gender role" and "female gender role" is?

Understanding the male gender roles will open a lot of doors for you and you will be able to attract the right women, else you will have relationships with females, who will lose interest or you will think, that they are not enough valuable for you.

MEN SHOULD BE SOCIAL PROVIDERS AND SOCIAL PROTECTORS!

What does it mean?
It means that other people need you and like you so much, that they want to spend as much time as possible with you. Having a character, that could have such an effect on the people is much more important, than having a lot of money.

Do you know why women like men with a lot of money?

Maybe you think, because this way they can have their desires fulfilled. In most of the cases, they are attracted to the qualities with which he managed to make the money. Women think, that men have to occupy a powerful position, like a director, in order to be that wealthy.
By having this kind of job, you must be a leader, who brings value in people's life and she wants that value too. She wants to date valuable men,  from whom she can learn a lot.

Every man has or had a little boy side, who would want to live his life based on feelings. If this side controls your life, YOU HAVE TO STOP IT and start being a real man, because otherwise you will play the female gender role and it will appear role reversal in your relationship. Your girlfriend will start to lead and to control you and so she will lose interest and her attraction for you decreases significantly. You are allowed to feel,
but don't make emotional decisions, if you want to have a healthy relationship.

A woman wants to feel feminine in the relationship, she wants to be surrounded by feelings, not to rely on logic. She wants to be accepted and protected, if she feels weak.

The society imposed, that men have to make the first move and should work for her and it is hers job to appreciate it. So don't complain about it, because it's easier to adapt, than to try to change the society. Don't be against it and don't find it so bad. If you want to be alone your whole life, then keep complaining about society or find excuses, be a whiner or do whatever you want, but if you want to be happy, then listen to me, integrate and go find your girl, because it's out there, waiting for you.

NO MORE WHINING, NO MORE COMPLAINING, NO MORE BEING A LITTLE BOY!  

REMEMBER: EVERY PART OF THE RELATIONSHIP HAS TO PLAY ITS ROLE!

1 comment:

  1. Sometimes boys will be boys until they grow up... and realize and accept the gender role they have to play.

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