Monday, January 9, 2012

Want to find out if she likes you?

Many men face this problem every day, because they can't figure out, if a girl likes them or not. They hope, that they will find out one day, if they can have a relationship with her or not.

Do you want to be one of these guys? Or do you want to be the leader of the interaction and know always what is going on?

You have the choice!

If you accept to become an alpha male, who can have control in a relationship, then  with me you're on the good way.

Do you know why there is this problem of not knowing if she likes a man?

Because the man hasn't been advancing enough, he is the nice guy, who is just waiting for whatever reason. I suggest you to want more, not to be satisfied with this social condition.


Your inner-voice should tell you this, whenever you find yourself in this situation.

A mentor of mine said: "Dating is like passing a traffic light at an intersection". When you arrive in an intersection, you can see a traffic light, that can have three lights: a green light, a yellow light or a red light.
Imagine that those guys, who haven't been advancing enough and are not sure, can see only the yellow light.

The green light means, that she likes you and the red light means, that she rejects you and doesn't want to be in a relationship with you.

Believe me, you don't want to get a yellow light.

You should constantly test the waters and flirt with her to see if you get the green or the red light. If she flirts back, you're on the right track, you got a green light and you should advance trough her boundaries.
Always take things to the next level: if she flirts back, touch her like I said in the article "Don't fall into the friend-zone!" . If you're holding her hand, then stroke her hair, if you're stroking her hair, give her a kiss...

If you get a red-light from the beginning, you should move on with your life and not waste your time anymore, because it's very valuable. It is much better to get a red-light, than to see the yellow-light. If you get a red-light at the other steps, it means that you have advanced forward to quickly and you should return to the previous step.
For example if she feels uncomfortable, when you take her hand, then you should return to the previous step and flirt more and build a connection with her and then you can try again.

With exercise, you will become a master of dating and you won't have such a problem anymore,
of not knowing if she likes you.
You should be a determined man, who wants to see things clear.

If you find yourself in such a situation, then you have the right tool to find out if she really likes you.

1 comment:

  1. A seductive man is assured, he has everything he needs, but he realizes he needs a little something more. He needs good company. He needs a woman the way a woman needs a man. He doesn't assert his need, but he lets a lady know he is available.