Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Do you really want a girlfriend?




If you want a girlfriend, then you have to be ready to lose her and to enjoy your life even if you are single. Many men become so devastated after a breakup, so that they want to quit school, or the job and they end up revenging on their life and becoming depressed.

Many think that there is no reason to live their life if they don't get back together with their ex-girlfriends and they believe that being with her again will change their life and every problem will disappear. 

THIS IS NOT TRUE AT ALL!

You have to know, that if you can't live without a woman, then you never deserved her in the first place.

If you feel this way, then you have limiting beliefs and even if you find a great woman, you will push her away from you with your neediness. Having this limiting beliefs can really affect your life and can stop you from having the desired success, so that you will never become happy.
If you want to be helped to get rid of these limiting beliefs, read It's time to forget about your limiting beliefs and be aware that they are the biggest obstacle in your life and try to avoid them.

My advice is the following:

If you cannot enjoy being single and don't love yourself, then you cannot be loved by a woman. When you will feel amazing in your presence and you will have a positive opinion about you, then you will convey your mentality to women and they will feel attracted to you!

If you're not happy with your life, then work to improve it.
If you're fat, don't delay going to the gym anymore. Now it's time to do it.
If you're not sociable and you are too shy, then start conversations with anybody and interact with as many people as possible.
If you're not having good results at a subject at school and this bothers you, then buy every book, ask your teacher to give you private lessons.

If you want something, go get it! Don't just complain that it won't work for you until you have tried everything. 

I realized that many men are attracted to women with qualities, that they don't have, so that they feel completed by them and after a breakup they start whining. That's why it is so important to work on yourself and not depend on somebody else. 

What I would like you to remember after reading this article is that you should love yourself(I know it sounds sappy) and not be affected that you don't have a girlfriend, because you can have one, if you begin to work on yourself.

You should not start isolating yourself or live in fantasies, just because you can't have your ex-girlfriend back or that you're single.

If you do, then WAKE UP MAN!!!!!!

So work on developing qualities, which you lack, in yourself and learn to be happy with yourself.



3 comments:

  1. Great post! Simple and to the point: the best kind of advice that people never take :)

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    1. Thank you! I'm glad to hear that.

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  2. What women look for in men is simple: a man who's not afraid to be a man. That doesn't mean trying to club her over the head and drag her back to your cave. It just means showing your intentions in a non-intrusive way which also demonstrates you're a man.

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